Thursday, September 28, 2006

Not your father's sex shop

Inside, the 11,000-square-foot store, run by manager Rachel Miller, is white-glove clean and brightly lit. Except for the merchandise it appears to be like any other business in any other heavily stuccoed mecca of suburban consumer culture.

Which is precisely the idea. Adult stores — including chains with names such as Priscilla's in the heartland states, Hustler Hollywood in urban centers, and soon-to-open franchise outposts of the Adam & Eve mail-order empire — are trying to go mainstream because they have realized America loves the products but hates the dark, dank stores staffed by questionable characters.

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Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Character

Such as are your habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of your mind; for the soul is dyed by the thoughts. - Marcus Aurelius

Of all virtues and dignities of the mind, goodness is the greatest, being the character of the Deity; and without it, man is a busy, mischievous, wretched thing. - Francis Bacon

Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking. - H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

What to do ?

George Thorogood and Buddy Guy— Casino Del Sol's AVA, 5655 W. Valencia Road. Southern rock.6:30 p.m. Sept. 21. $20-$65 through Ticketmaster, 321-1000. 883-1700.

Alice in Chains — Rialto Theatre, 318 E. Congress St. Hard rock. 8:30 p.m. Sept. 26. $40. (Related story, Page 10.) 740-1000.

Not Burnt Out Just Unscrewed — Bookman's, 6230 E. Speedway. Local improv comedy troupe performs.7:30-8:30 p.m. the last Friday of the month, Sept. 29-Dec. 29. Free. 440-4436.

Tucson Greek Festival — St. Demetrios Orthodox Church, 1145 E. Fort Lowell Road. Gryos, folk dancing, baklava, live music. 5-10 p.m. Sept. 21; 5-11 p.m. Sept. 22; 4-11 p.m. Sept. 23; noon-6:30 p.m. Sept. 24. $2; kids 12 and under free. 888-0505.

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Monday, September 25, 2006

Decoding her phrases

She says: “I’m not angry.”
What she means: I’m angry.

Why she does this: If she’s pursing her lips and not speaking to you, but claims she’s not angry, she’s probably bluffing. She could simply be bottling up her anger or she may think that her man should just know why she’s upset, without her having to tell him.

What you should do: Try to figure out why she’s upset and talk about it. The issue is not going to go away. In fact, if you don’t deal with it, she’ll just have bottled-up anger toward you and it’ll come back to bite you later.

She says: “I think of you as a brother.”
What she means: I’m not attracted to you.

Why she does this: She probably wants to preempt your hitting on her with this sneaky little line. It serves the purpose of letting you know she’s not into you, and of course, it’s kinder than telling you the truth.

What you should do: In this case, it’s what you shouldn’t do: Don’t make a move on her.

Things Men Should Know About Women

# 100. Girls enjoy always having something kind of wrong, like a headache or cramping or something. Remember: No matter how bad it sounds, she’s going to outlive you.

Change

Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.
~ King Whitney Jr.

Change your thoughts and you change your world.
~ Norman Vincent Peale (1898 - 1993)

G'Kar: It is said that the future is always born in pain. The history of war is the history of pain. If we are wise, what is born of that pain matures into the promise of a better world, because we learn that we can no longer afford the mistakes of the past.

Sunday, September 24, 2006

Coming Back To Life

Where were you when I was burned and broken
While the days slipped by from my window watching
Where were you when I was hurt and helpless
Because the things you say and the things you do surround me
While you were hanging yourself on someone else's words
Dying to believe in what you heard
I was staring straight into the setting sun

Lost in thought and lost in time
While the seeds of lifeand the seeds of change were planted
Outside the rain fell dark and slow
While I pondered on this dangerous but irresistible pastime
I took a heavenly ride through our silence
I knew the moment had arrived
For killing the past and coming back to life

I took a heavenly ride through our silence
I knew the waiting had begun
And headed straight..into the rising sun

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Playmate sues taxi driver

NEW YORK - A woman who bills herself as the first openly lesbian Playboy Playmate sued a taxi driver, police and the city on Friday, claiming that officers needlessly roughed her up based on the cabbie's false accusation that she was armed and dangerous.

"It was a nightmare," Stephanie Adams, 35, said at a news conference announcing the suit, which seeks unspecified damages.

The city had no immediate response. The cab driver, 40-year-old Eric Darko, denied any wrongdoing.

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The suit stems from a May 25 incident that began when Adams — Miss November 1992 — caught Darko's cab on the Upper East Side of Manhattan to take to her Chelsea apartment. After the pair argued over where to drop her off, she alleges he cursed her out, called 911 and made the false report that she had a gun.

Saturday, September 23, 2006

Marriage

By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.
Socrates
Greek philosopher in Athens (469 BC - 399 BC)

A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
Dave Meurer, "Daze of Our Wives"

One man's folly is another man's wife.
Helen Rowland
(1876 - 1950)

Thursday, September 21, 2006

Things Men Should Know About Women

# 62. A British study claims a woman’s chances of getting married drop by 40 percent for every 16-point rise in her IQ. The same increase in IQ for a man boosted his chances of getting married by 35 percent.

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

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Monday, September 18, 2006

Telling The Truth

When we’re honest with others, we’re telling them that we respect them enough to give them the truth. Being truthful doesn’t mean answering every question that someone asks or sharing everything we know about a situation. Not everyone needs to have extensive answers to their questions. You can tell the difference between a person who needs information and one who’s nosy.

When speaking with people, it helps to use tact — telling the truth in a nice way. We can reply to people by saying, “That’s a question I’d rather not answer,” or “I don’t feel comfortable sharing that information.” Tact can be used in many situations so you can tell the truth in a nonabrasive way.

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Actions not words

We have too many high sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them.
Abigail Adams (1744 - 1818), letter to John Adams, 1774

Sunday, September 17, 2006

Life is unfair

"Babylon 5" (1994)

Marcus Cole: I used to think it was a terrible thing that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'what if life *were* fair, and all of the terrible things that happen to us came because we really deserved them?' Now I take great comfort in the general unfairness and hostility of the universe.

Things Men Should Know About Women

# 73. Over the course of her life, a woman will use 10 men for every one she loves. If you lent her your car or helped her move and didn't get laid, you're one of the 10.

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Man saws woman in half in dispute over parking spot

Can we all just take a moment to think about what is really important...

RIO DE JANEIRO, Brazil - A street parking attendant was charged with sawing a woman in two over a parking space dispute, police said Wednesday.

The 29-year-old male suspect was arrested Tuesday night and confessed to murdering businesswoman Edna Souza, 51, in a house she was trying to rent in the middle-class Botafogo district, a police spokeswoman said.

"Only the bottom part of the corpse has been found. Today police are going in force to the city waste dump, which will be combed to try to find the upper part," the spokeswoman said.

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The parking attendant told police he had had an argument with Souza some time ago when she left her car in front of a building where parking was banned, ignoring his protests. The last time she came to the neighborhood on Monday, he followed her inside the house and killed her.

Police received information that the two had quarreled and questioned the man, who confessed the murder. He killed her with a knife and then used a handsaw to dismember the body, police said. The man said Souza had humiliated him.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Mom pleads guilty to giving teen pot

GETTYSBURG, Pa. - A woman facing drug charges admitted in court that she smoked marijuana with her 13-year-old son, often to reward him for doing his homework.

Amanda Lynn Livelsberger, 30, pleaded guilty to several misdemeanor drug charges Monday in Adams Country court and will be sentenced Nov. 27.

She admitted she had been smoking marijuana with her son since he was 11 and said she had also smoked with two of his friends, ages 17 and 18.

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Things Men Should Know About Women

# 39. It never hurts to say you're sorry, even if you don't mean it.

Monday, September 11, 2006

5 years September 11th

America is the greatest, freest and most decent society in existence. It is an oasis of goodness in a desert of cynicism and barbarism. This country, once an experiment unique in the world, is now the last best hope for the world.
Dinesh D'Souza

Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labor in freedom.
Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955), 'Out of My Later Years,' 1950

Sunday, September 10, 2006

Types of Condoms

Nowadays, condoms come in a variety of sizes, colors, and even flavors. There are small ones, skinny ones, purple ones, strawberry ones, peppermint ones.you name it, and it probably exists. Soon, we might find that we already have as many types of condoms as Hallmark have cards. There used to be a time in another era when there was only one kind of condom out in the market, as far as the texture (or nubbing) is concerned. That has changed in monumental fashion. Nowadays, they can be adorned with latex or they can be ribbed. Some of them can just be on the exterior but some are studded both inside and outside. Presumably, this is also to provide the user with added enjoyment.

Exactly how many different kinds of condoms are out there? Are there in fact any significant differences at all? Basically, all condoms would fall under 8 categories in general, based on the primary consideration. These do not include the ones that would be invented tomorrow (knowing the ingenuity of today's generation, they will come up with something). The first is the material; it is either made from polyurethane or latex. Second is the size that involves the width and not the length. However, those available in convenience shops are standard-sized. Third is the kind of lubrication where different substances are used for different brands of condoms. Fourth is the spermicidal. Spermicidal lubricant is sometimes used to lessen the probability of pregnancy.

One of the more common is called nonoxynol-9. Some individuals are sensitive to this and in fact, if used a lot of times, may heighten HIV-infection possibility. Fifth is the Ribbed. There are many people out there, espe cially young people, who utter in disgust "if AIDS is not so prevalent, I would never use this.I cannot feel a thing." This type is the heaven-sent condom for them. It has ridges making sex more "feel-able" for the couple. Next is color, enough said, it's self-explanatory. Seventh would be flavor, obviously, this is for those daring individuals who have a propensity for oral sex. Tastes can range from strawberry to god knows what else! However, these condoms should not be used for vaginal/anal sex. Eighth and the last, is the reservoir tipped. Most condoms in fact have a reservoir-like end to hold the semen as opposed to the few others which have plain tips. For the reservoir type, make sure that you pinch the tip before dressing it on. This is more or less mandatory because if air gets in, it could easily break when you are busy and that is what you wouldn't like to happen. Actually, there is another one, but since our topic is men's condoms, a simple mention of it would suffice. This is the female condom (If you are a guy reading t!
his and you are the kind who is so averse to putting on condoms, this should give you an idea, right?)

Now that we are through enumerating them, let us go to the more important part which is to answer the question "what are the qualities of a good condom?" In terms of material, latex is probably the best; avoid the naturally made ones (lamb membrane for example). Some unenlightened souls claim that a few viruses can go thru latex that is absolutely untrue. Those made from natural materials are porous and so there is a probability of virus-transmission. Another would be the presence of lubricants. Picking the water-based ones is best like those that are pre-lubricated with spermicidal gel or foam. Petroleum, baby oil or cream used as lubricant is risky. These types have the tendency to weaken condoms, even latex. Packaging is also an invitation. (Not only vis-à-vis colors although to some people, color is paramount, they are probably the reason why the glow-in-the dark type was born.)

More specifically, what do women want in a condom? Some condoms are packaged to look like tampon containers and a few women are attracted to this. Form also counts - to illustrate, French ticklers (condoms having long appendages) have popular appeal as these (just like the ridges) increase pleasure during intercourse. For this same purpose, some women would insist that their husbands/boyfriends buy the ultra thin type. Of course, not all nationalities are alike. Japanese women in fact, are insistent on using condoms over pills but they are not particular over the kind or form of condom to be used. For as long as she gets assured that it would not break, she probably would not actually care on what specific kind of condom is being used. If you are an American though, a piece of advice: bring your own, the size being manufactured in there might not be to your liking.

Lastly, the most interesting though, according to one expert on the topic (she came out with a hilarious yet enlightening piece) - women generally, do not care about the ridges, ribbing or the lubrication. The problem she claims is that condoms are designed by men. She asserts that if women were to be the ones to do this designing, they would just make "padded" condoms. Length may not really be crucial, but according to her, width does and that is where the padding comes in naturally.


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Friday, September 08, 2006

ARE MEN SMARTER?

Newly published research could fuel the fiery debate over whether one gender is innately more intelligent than the other - a controversy that already has featured the resignation of a Harvard president and an academic battle in Denmark. The latest study from Canada reports that 17- to 18-year-old males have a slight edge in IQ, based on an analysis of more than 100,000 SAT scores. But even the researcher behind the study acknowledges that the findings don't represent the final word on gender and intelligence.

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Past studies have tended to declare the gender intelligence contest a virtual tie, with men rating higher in spatial ability (for example, reading a map) and women having an edge in verbal ability (using a varied vocabulary).

Things Men Should Know About Women

# 61. When a woman tells you her problems, she does not want you to offer solutions.

Monday, September 04, 2006

Cast Away

Chuck Noland: We both had done the math. Kelly added it all up and... knew she had to let me go. I added it up, and knew that I had... lost her. 'cos I was never gonna get off that island. I was gonna die there, totally alone. I was gonna get sick, or get injured or something. The only choice I had, the only thing I could control was when, and how, and where it was going to happen. So... I made a rope and I went up to the summit, to hang myself. I had to test it, you know? Of course. You know me. And the weight of the log, snapped the limb of the tree, so I-I - , I couldn't even kill myself the way I wanted to. I had power over *nothing*. And that's when this feeling came over me like a warm blanket. I knew, somehow, that I had to stay alive. Somehow. I had to keep breathing. Even though there was no reason to hope. And all my logic said that I would never see this place again. So that's what I did. I stayed alive. I kept breathing. And one day my logic was proven all wrong because the tide came in, and gave me a sail. And now, here I am. I'm back. In Memphis, talking to you. I have ice in my glass... And I've lost her all over again. I'm so sad that I don't have Kelly. But I'm so grateful that she was with me on that island. And I know what I have to do now. I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?

Sunday, September 03, 2006

Woman is killed on Grant Road

Tucson, AZ - A Tucson woman was killed when she was struck by a car while trying to cross the street.

Barbara Shestko, 46, was not in a crosswalk when she was hit in the 3500 block of East Grant Road at about 10:30 p.m. Friday, Tucson police Sgt. Decio Hopffer said in a press release.

Shestko was struck by a 1991 Infinity G20 heading east on Grant. The driver, a 16-year-old girl who was not identified, was not cited, the release said.

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Things Men Should Know About Women

# 79. Never trust the woman who gives you the best blow job you’ve ever had.

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